[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.moscom.cz\/nechci-nemuzu-nebudu\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.moscom.cz\/nechci-nemuzu-nebudu\/","headline":"Nechci, nem\u016f\u017eu, nebudu","name":"Nechci, nem\u016f\u017eu, nebudu","description":"Podob\u00e1 se u v\u00e1s doma psan\u00ed dom\u00e1c\u00edch \u00fakol\u016f sc\u00e9n\u011b z\u00a0hororu? Je\u010d\u00edc\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, nerv\u00f3zn\u00ed rodi\u010d a pr\u00e1ce nikde? Zkusili jste u\u017e prosby i hrozby, sliby i z\u00e1kazy, ale nic nepom\u00e1h\u00e1? Boj\u00edte … ","datePublished":"2023-05-31","dateModified":"2023-05-31","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.moscom.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.moscom.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6eaf701939e92690bed32d6f2e2c0f9e1355f2e3837c1fb45fbfacf848239e2d?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6eaf701939e92690bed32d6f2e2c0f9e1355f2e3837c1fb45fbfacf848239e2d?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"moscom.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.moscom.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a295010_w2170_t1506677032.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.moscom.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a295010_w2170_t1506677032.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.moscom.cz\/nechci-nemuzu-nebudu\/","wordCount":595,"articleBody":"Podob\u00e1 se u v\u00e1s doma psan\u00ed dom\u00e1c\u00edch \u00fakol\u016f sc\u00e9n\u011b z\u00a0hororu? Je\u010d\u00edc\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, nerv\u00f3zn\u00ed rodi\u010d a pr\u00e1ce nikde? Zkusili jste u\u017e prosby i hrozby, sliby i z\u00e1kazy, ale nic nepom\u00e1h\u00e1? Boj\u00edte se, \u017ee kv\u016fli dom\u00e1c\u00edm \u00fakol\u016fm bude m\u00edt va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b \u0161patn\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky a bude zaost\u00e1vat za ostatn\u00edmi? D\u011bs\u00edte se poka\u017ed\u00e9, kdy\u017e otev\u0159ete \u017e\u00e1kovskou? Uklidn\u011bn\u00edm v\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt, \u017ee v\u00a0tom nejste sami, a ne v\u017edy je chyba jen u v\u00e1s nebo u d\u00edt\u011bte.\u00a0\u00a0Prvn\u00edm krokem je se zastavit. Pokud odpor va\u0161eho d\u00edt\u011bte k\u00a0dom\u00e1c\u00edm \u00fakol\u016fm dlouhodob\u011b p\u0159etrv\u00e1v\u00e1, a p\u0159ekra\u010duje hranice b\u011b\u017en\u00e9ho zloben\u00ed, je na m\u00edst\u011b se zamyslet, pro\u010d tomu tak je. Zkuste se vr\u00e1tit v\u00a0\u010dase do doby, kdy probl\u00e9my za\u010daly? D\u011blo se tou dobou v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b d\u00edt\u011bte nebo va\u0161em n\u011bco mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e9ho, doch\u00e1zelo k\u00a0n\u011bjak\u00fdm zm\u011bn\u00e1m? Pakli\u017ee ano, pak va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b tyto zm\u011bny mo\u017en\u00e1 je\u0161t\u011b nevst\u0159ebalo. Zkuste si tak\u00e9 promluvit s\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem v\u00a0klidu, uvoln\u011bn\u011b, pokud mo\u017eno mimo obdob\u00ed d\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed \u00fakol\u016f, jestli se mu n\u011bco ned\u011bje ve \u0161kole nebo jinde. Mal\u00e9 d\u011bti mohou t\u011b\u017ece n\u00e9st nap\u0159\u00edklad st\u011bhov\u00e1n\u00ed kamar\u00e1da, ty star\u0161\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e1 zrovna pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed prvn\u00ed l\u00e1sku \u010di prvn\u00ed zlomen\u00e9 srdce. Vylou\u010dit byste samoz\u0159ejm\u011b nem\u011bli ani mo\u017enost, \u017ee va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b ve \u0161kole \u0161ikanuj\u00ed. Pokud se d\u00edt\u011b ve \u0161kole tr\u00e1p\u00ed, tak je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee s\u00a0n\u00ed doma nechce m\u00edt nic spole\u010dn\u00e9ho.\u00a0I kdy\u017e u\u010ditel \u010di u\u010ditelka u\u017e o probl\u00e9mech va\u0161eho d\u00edt\u011bte s\u00a0\u00fakoly nejsp\u00ed\u0161e v\u011bd\u00ed, je i tak dobr\u00e9 domluvit si s\u00a0nimi sch\u016fzku. U\u010ditel v\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee \u0159\u00edci, zda se probl\u00e9my d\u00edt\u011bte omezuj\u00ed jen na \u00fakoly, \u010di zda se objevily i jinde. Pobavte se nap\u0159\u00edklad o tom, jak se d\u00edt\u011b chov\u00e1 k\u00a0u\u010ditel\u016fm a ke spolu\u017e\u00e1k\u016fm, jak mu jde u\u010den\u00ed v\u00a0hodin\u011b, jak se ostatn\u00ed chovaj\u00ed k\u00a0n\u011bmu. To v\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee hodn\u011b napov\u011bd\u011bt o tom, v\u00a0\u010dem je probl\u00e9m. Pokud je va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b jinak \u010dil\u00e9, vesel\u00e9 a spole\u010densk\u00e9, tak m\u016f\u017ee probl\u00e9m v\u011bzet v\u00a0konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed l\u00e1tce nebo u\u010diteli, kter\u00fd \u010dasto odstran\u00ed p\u00e1r hodin dou\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed nebo p\u0159e\u0159azen\u00ed do jin\u00e9 skupiny. Pokud se naopak objevily i zm\u011bny v\u00a0chov\u00e1n\u00ed a propad v\u00a0hodin\u00e1ch, je nutn\u00e9 hned jednat a zajistit d\u00edt\u011bti i sob\u011b odbornou pomoc.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0Pokud si ani po porad\u011b s\u00a0d\u00edt\u011btem a u\u010ditelem nejste jisti, kde je probl\u00e9m, je nam\u00edst\u011b n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva psychologa. Ten dok\u00e1\u017ee odhalit nap\u0159\u00edklad specifick\u00e9 poruchy u\u010den\u00ed, jako je dyslexie nebo dyskalkulie. Nav\u00edc, v\u011bt\u0161ina psychologick\u00fdch poraden jsou koncipov\u00e1na jako bezpe\u010dn\u00e1 a klidn\u00e1 m\u00edsta, a ta mohou pomoci rozmluvit se i b\u00e1zliv\u00fdm d\u011btem o jejich probl\u00e9mech.\u00a0\u00a0Je ov\u0161em nutn\u00e9 si pamatovat, \u017ee \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd odborn\u00edk za v\u00e1s va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b \u201eneoprav\u00ed\u201c, a poradou to jen za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1. P\u0159ejeme v\u00e1m hodn\u011b \u00fasp\u011bch\u016f a pevn\u00e9 nervy.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.7\/5 - (7 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Nechci, nem\u016f\u017eu, nebudu","item":"https:\/\/www.moscom.cz\/nechci-nemuzu-nebudu\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]